Personal & social development // Friendship & Cooperation
Makes someone a good friend
Understand what makes someone a good friend — being kind, honest, reliable, and including others — and recognise behaviours that are not friendly, such as being bossy, leaving people out, or saying mean things
Quick check
Can the learner describe what makes a good friend and recognise when someone — including themselves — isn't being a good friend?
Ask this to see whether the topic is secure.
Topic // Mastery
What mastery looks like
- List at least four qualities of a good friend
- Identify unfriendly behaviour in a story or real situation
- Reflect on a time they were a good friend and explain what they did
Topic // Map
Where this fits
- RequiredMust come first
- HelpfulHelps, but not essential
Before this
1 topicFriendship & Cooperation // Ages 5 to 8
Understanding what makes a good friend draws on cooperation and inclusion vocabulary
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Makes someone a good friend
Ages 5 to 7 // Concept
Leads to
2 topicsFriendship & Cooperation // Ages 7 to 9
Conflict resolution builds on understanding friendship qualities
- Friendships change over timeRequired
Friendship & Cooperation // Ages 7 to 9
Understanding friendship changes builds on knowing what makes a good friend
Topic // Standards
Curriculum standards
- IB PYP Personal, Social and Physical Education (PSPE) Scope and Sequence
- PSPE.INT.P1.CU.4
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