Personal & social development // Empathy & Social Awareness
Sympathy Versus Empathy
Distinguish sympathy ('I feel sorry for you') from empathy ('I understand what you're experiencing'); develop active listening skills: reflecting, paraphrasing, asking open questions, resisting the urge to problem-solve too quickly; understand empathic curiosity as genuine interest in another person's inner world; practise being present for someone in distress without trying to fix or minimise their experience; understand vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue, and how empathetic people can protect their own wellbeing while staying present for others
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When a friend is going through something really difficult, can the learner describe what makes a listener genuinely helpful — and explain the difference between empathy and sympathy, using an example of something that sounds supportive but actually isn't?
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2 topics- Questioning Your Own BiasesRequired
Empathy & Social Awareness // Ages 9 to 11
Advanced social awareness depends on earlier empathy skills
- Systemic Inequality and AllyshipRequired
Empathy & Social Awareness // Ages 11 to 12
Advanced social awareness depends on foundational advanced empathy skills
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Sympathy Versus Empathy
Ages 12 to 13 // Method
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1 topic- Global CitizenshipRequired
Empathy & Social Awareness // Ages 13 to 14
Empathy and social awareness mastery depends on advanced social awareness skills
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