Personal & social development // Self-Regulation & Resilience
Simple Calming Strategies
Use simple calming strategies when feeling upset or overwhelmed — such as taking deep breaths, counting to ten, or going to a quiet space — and understand that these help the body and mind settle down
Quick check
When the learner gets really upset — say they lose a game or argue with a sibling — can they use a strategy like deep breaths to calm themselves down rather than staying in meltdown mode?
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Topic // Mastery
What mastery looks like
- Demonstrate at least two calming strategies when prompted
- Choose to use a calming strategy independently during a real upset
- Explain in simple terms why calming down helps them think better
Topic // Map
Where this fits
- RequiredMust come first
- HelpfulHelps, but not essential
Before this
2 topics- Words for Big FeelingsRequired
Self-Regulation & Resilience // Ages 5 to 8
Calming strategies (calm, breathe, settle) rely on knowing this vocabulary to name and apply the techniques
- Naming Basic EmotionsHelpful
Emotional Literacy // Ages 5 to 7
Calming strategies benefit from naming the emotion you're trying to manage
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Simple Calming Strategies
Ages 5 to 7 // Method
Leads to
4 topics- Positive Self-TalkRequired
Self-Regulation & Resilience // Ages 7 to 9
Positive self-talk builds on basic calming strategies
Self-Regulation & Resilience // Ages 7 to 9
Different coping strategies builds on knowing basic calming strategies
Emotional Literacy // Ages 5 to 7
Expressing feelings in words benefits from calming down first
Self-Regulation & Resilience // Ages 5 to 7
Patience benefits from calming strategies when waiting is hard
Topic // Standards
Curriculum standards
- IB PYP Personal, Social and Physical Education (PSPE) Scope and Sequence
- PSPE-ID-LO-P1-7
Personal & social development // Self-Regulation & Resilience
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